Dynewind 2 years 2 months ago wrote:

hey guys... i wanna know ur advice about my story ok

This is this girl...... i was in the same home class with her in Indonesia... and she's kinda quiet and closed.... but after knowing each other online from RO we became close..... <not THAT close> and at chrimast holiday, our school is having a mandatory service... and we <me, her and others RO player> planning to go to mall to the net cafe to play together... that's one time she asked me to pick her up and go there together... that time i dont know what she mean and so i reject her saying that my house is closer to the mall, so then i have to drive around nope... <it's not even i have a car yet> and so i asked my ohter friend to pick her up coz he will go pass her house... but she kept trying...

The next chrimast, me and her and other, wanna go there again.... so we look for ride from church to the mall.... we find that 3 of her friends is going there so i went with them.... <i was the only guy in the car beside the driver> and after that, we enter the mall, and the girls go to manga-shopping... me and her walk together to the cafe ~ what a beautiful moment...
after playing for about 2 hours, some of my friends stopped playing and going to get lunch...
I asked if she would like to eat but she says no and just keep playing so i keep playing till her parents come and pick her up....

and after christmas, our school having retreat to a vilage on a mountain....
only good students allowed < i mean good manner, etc> and at the 2nd day, we went to the beach <the whole group> and when we alked to the middle of the sea <not really middle> i met her and talk..... and she asked like... why do they went that far>> so iwe headed back together.... and so...~~ it was a great exp....

That night, at the village's church...... while waiting to be started the computer teacher played some pics from the past 2 days.... and he use LCD to the wall..... suddenly, there is the pic.... me and her walking together across the shore..... my friends around me start to teasing and i become red.... i bet she's too.... and after the service, the principal ask us to shake hands with everyone... so i went looking for her... when i reach her friends, i was glad to make it in time... when it's her turn, she said "<my name>, no need to" ... that was really sad....

Now, i'm stuck at US here..... and i dont think i can be anything with her... except for distant friend.... so i hope i can go back there later....
but even if i'm able to go back,..... i bet everything is different....
sooooo

any idea

SinnerChrno 2 years 2 months ago wrote:

Yo im not good at this whole relationship thing let alone along distance one but.For sure you can't let her forget about you.If she plays Ro still then you should try your best to hang out with her.Ask things about how things are over there and if anything has changed.
If she doest no longer play Ro or she is just busy take the time to write a letter or atleast email her.Also do not miss her birthday..They will hate you for it trust me.Send them a gift if possible tho overseas might be a bit pricy.Also make sure shes still comfortable around you dont go askign TOO many questions or very personal questions.Hmm maybe if you save up some money even give her a surprise visit.Well thats all the adive i really got to give man sorry.Hope it helps some.Hang in there and be good friend and you will probably be alright.Well best of luck to you man.

Dynewind 2 years 2 months ago wrote:

thanks a lot ( TT _ TT )
she still play RO... the prob is...
even if i download ragnarok version Indonesia, how can i pay ?
they use voucher there.....
and if i play, it would be 14 hours faster there....
so here morning, in ind is night
we are in contact but because of internet is expensive and full of probs,
she only answer my email about once a month.....
i did sent mail... and it cost like 20 bucks for a piece of paper ( TT _ TT )
and now i bought her present and i dont think i can send it coz it's a lot heavier...
you know the bottle glass thingy
i bought that < i think it's weird for me to give her that, but it's to late..>
surprise visit... i would LOVE that... ( TT _ TT )
maybe 5 more years ( TT _ TT )
/hah hope sooo

SinnerChrno 2 years 2 months ago wrote:

Hmm well the whole time zone thing is problematic but you can overcome.Just make some time on the weekend to spend with her ingame Tell her your problem and see if she can arrange to free up her schedule a bit to talk to an old friend.also if it takes a week for her to reply then make up for lost time Send her an email each week regarding how your week went or anything special then ask her about her week or err month.That way you can actually here more from her.Also im sure you can send her a gift just have to reseach a bit on how to do it.You know maybe ask around or ask her.hmmm Well if all else fails i gues you can always resort to myspace....Or maybe even recomend this site to her.Heh once again im out of information sorry man.Well hang tough and good luck ^^

tuikyuo 2 years 2 months ago wrote:

forget about her, there'll be others.

Dynewind 2 years 2 months ago wrote:

haha i would like to make her join myspace or that kind of stuff
but she's not that kind of person /heh
and iif i make her join this forums, what about the hentai gallery
it would be embarrasing to me !
/heh
but thanks for your idea though... i hope i can do it somehow....
well,.... i would be less active from now....
coz if the teacher see me open internet this class
i'm out!! hehe so see u later

fuse 2 years 2 months ago wrote:

You know sometimes girls are strange. You have to show a girl a lot of "I like you", and never show her "I'm not sure if I like you". And even then she might walk away from you. Girls are like a rubick's cube, you can't figure out every angle they work at.

I did some similar bad moves to my old girlfriend. Like we had plans and I went back on them. I won't tell you the reason I told her, because you will all laugh, but...

Well I think if you know a girl and are friends with her for years, then you decide to date, then the friendship can take many falls before she turns away from you. You would have to slit some wrists before she'd give up on you, if you're friendship is a strong one. Only way to have a strong relationship is to use your brain and stop thinking with your dick... (sorry for the crude statement)

(This is just my opinion and observations, I'm not a professional at dating or anything)

Israel 2 years 2 months ago wrote:

move one dude as what neo said. ull find a better one, more sexy, more caring,more sensitive,more more more more more bumper and hood. i hope u get it


u know what, theres like 2:10, two guys for 10 girls. coz just think of think. Who gets killed always? its the male. Who gets to jail always? its the guys, who gets to war always and end up dead? its the guys, which gender makes a lot of suicides? its the guys. which gender that plays a lot of computer games and forgets about life? its the guys.


Dont loose hope dude

fuse 2 years 2 months ago wrote:

It's actually like 55% women 45% men in the world... or last I checked. Of course that's just a rough figure.

Israel 2 years 2 months ago wrote:

hehe,fuse as long as we know that when it comes to population domination, the women wins.

anadorn 2 years 2 months ago wrote:

Yeah but in the internet the ratio goes as far as 35%male and 65%female(estimate)LOL

Hmm.. you got some though situation my friend, question is right now, how much do you really like her? And also, think of the facts... is she that special in your life? When the it's you guys, will it go really well in the future?(suprise visit after five years?!) so on and so on, I have to say Neo and Israel has a point, but I don't think quiting is a good thing also... As I said check the facts... think hard and FEEL hard about your current situation...

I'm not good with advices... but I hope that help a little

asking her to join is good, just tell her about the H, it's not your fault that there's a perv in every guy, right?

SinnerChrno 2 years 2 months ago wrote:

I totally agree with anadorn.There is a saying in a movie called the girl next door lol weird i know but i think its apropriate for this situation.You just got ask yourself *Is the juice worth the squeez*sounds weird i know but from what i got out of that saying is will what you get in return be worth all your effort?Once you come up with your decision of whether to move on or try and get the girl you just got to STICK WITH IT!

Also anadorn the whole theres a perv in every guy thing. I couldn't have said that better myself.

anadorn 2 years 2 months ago wrote:

LOL. give me a high five man!

Oh tell me is Chrono Crusade your fave anime?

tuikyuo 2 years 2 months ago wrote:

there's a slut in every girl? har har.

SinnerChrno 2 years 2 months ago wrote:

*High Five*Lol and to answer you question yeah its my favorite anime, and manga. I like the manga ending more tho...for obvious reasons.

Also neo thats a little harsh..Whether its true or not i cannot say seeing as I am a guy. So I can't judge,But i do think you could have worded that better.slut just sounds to harsh lol you could even have stuck with perv it would still apply.Just saying lol.

anadorn 2 years 2 months ago wrote:

Wow man Neo that's a bit too harsh for their side don't you think? (defending the women's side, since he role-plays a lot as one.LOL)

tuikyuo 2 years 2 months ago wrote:

anadorn I dont understand your sentence at all.

SinnerChrno 2 years 2 months ago wrote:

lol i think anadorn means you are being to harsh so she is defending the women side since she roleplays a lot.Atleast that what i think.Feel free to correct me if im wrong ^^

anadorn 2 years 2 months ago wrote:

Your correct, except you wrote there that I'm a she.. but then again I'm role playing as a "she"... I don't need to cause everyone knows I'm a "he".. but aaa I'm confused...

Dynewind 2 years 2 months ago wrote:

haha.....
well.... how can i know how much i like her
i mean..... how can u measure it
it's kinda confusing to me
but i do like her and i dont really want to have an american girlfriend
for some reason.....
different background and manners will just be really srewed up
so i dont really know how to answer but you know
even if you think someone else will laugh about your story, fuse (u r the one who mentioned it) i sont find it dunny, coz i think if we r old enough.... we'll exp that ourself...
sooooo.... what else to say?

anadorn 2 years 2 months ago wrote:

? How can do you know?

hmm when you think of her, as in mention her name in your mind, what are the thoughts that go through your head, what are the feeling you feel?
when she's iin your mind do you want to her right there and there?
When your with her does the world feel like it was perfect?
so on and so on...

that's all I can give hoped it helped....

(Waaaaaaaa... I'm giving advices yet I don't have a love life, ironic isn't it?)

Dynewind 2 years 2 months ago wrote:

yes..... ( TT _ TT )

all u says is correct ( TT _ TT )

when i think, she came up..... for no reason

when i'm bored i wish she were with me

when i'm tired and angry i wish i can talk to her

i always remember the memories with her/....
the one i told u <above>

is it enough?

i mean i dont know anything else to say

anadorn 2 years 2 months ago wrote:

you my friend are sick and your sickness is the worst of all(in a good way)

It is LOVE... (I wish I could find the woman for me)... ahem...
anyway.. let's just see what the othes think

XIII09 2 years 2 months ago wrote:

dyne, i could just say that neo is right. ther'll be others. but if you love her, you'd do something to see her again. in that way, she'll know how sincere you are about her.

on the other hand though, don't run after her. know what i'm saying? it may be weird but, girls like men who don't have interest in them and vice versa. one thing's for sure, some girls are weird.

Dynewind 2 years 2 months ago wrote:

okok i'll try that

even it's weird

*wordless*

ehm
for anyone who might know me in the real world
and if you know the person i mentioned, please keep quiet okok

and for u who's not, i have been inviting some of my school friends here
and dont really want them to know that i like her
coz my friends practically know me and her

YoYo 2 years 1 month ago wrote:

if i had been u i would have thougth about her reasons for asking u to pick her up. that might have had consequences but it would have been a good one. as for being stuck in the us i've no sdvice. i think that it would have ended badly either way. i know from trying to have a long distence relationship that they don't work. if u ever get to go back i would try to(if she wasn't seeing some one else) ...... um........ and Zarion says... (he's helping me help) ...... if u mess up with a girl and u don't even know that she's giving u a chance well if it were Zarion in that situation i would take her out somewhere for a movie (if she isn't seeing someone). Zarion has had exp in that kind of situation.

Dynewind 2 years 1 month ago wrote:

okok thanks to you both stephen and alex....

and i do plan to take her to have dinner <before i stuck herh>
but......... by INFURIATING mom did not tell me that i was going to US

she only told me like... 1 week before!!!

YoYo 2 years 1 month ago wrote:

u r welcome. it make not be the best but its the best i have at the moment. sometimes i'm good at giving advice and others i need help.

Alecx 2 years 1 month ago wrote:

HI!

YoYo 2 years 1 month ago wrote:

Hi u idot.do not pay attention to this Alecx's dum post.

Dynewind 2 years 1 month ago wrote:

ahaha
hi yoyo
do u know him in person
u sound....

attached...

MWAHAHAHAHA