Blahblahblah 1 year 10 months ago wrote:

ok see my BF's old GF came back and so i told her that it was over between her and my BF and also told her to keep her old feelings to her self,but she wont stay away from my BF and its getting anoying.
also my BF is spending a lot of time with her and i think that he still likes his old GF a little still.
what do i do to keep our relationship together?

IdyotAko 1 year 10 months ago wrote:

Well... it really depends... how long have you two been together and how long have they been together before?

If your relationship is longer, then you have an advantage, if not... then you may have to be up front with him. Ask him if he still has feelings for his old GF. If he says yes, you may have to consider ending the relationship as his faithfulness is in question. If he says no, then you'll have to tell him to kinda stay away from her. Now of course, there is a possibility that they just want to stay friends, but this may complicate the relationship unless you're cool with the girl, which I can tell you're not.

Dynewind 1 year 10 months ago wrote:

umm......blahblah......
i think you should ask ur BF..... yoyo.......
i dont know what to do since he told me a lot about her
and you.....
sooooooooooooo
i am not much help

YoYo 1 year 10 months ago wrote:

then dont post!
and dont give out fake info!!

p.s.
expect angry letter

Blahblahblah 1 year 10 months ago wrote:

um.............. i dont know how long theyve been together but me and my BF have been together for..........about four months

XIII09 1 year 10 months ago wrote:

ask your BF how much he loves you and tell him if he still has feelings for her ex. if he REALLY loves you, he'll say no. hope that's a good enough advice..

Calicien 1 year 10 months ago wrote:

Well, anyone can lie. He can say no, but deep inside it can be a yes.

Darling, I've been in teh same situation. My boyfriend's ex-girlfriend confessed her feelings for my guy, and that I even saw a letter she gave him about trying to ruin us. Teh happy thing about that is that my boyfriend didn't give a shit about teh girl, and that it's totally over between them, no matter and whatever bullness teh girl does. They're still friends - well, not super friends. But just plain civil people. And my boyfriend knows that I don't like teh attitude of his ex-girlfriend -------------- just plain whateverness. Besides, I don't like her because she tried to mess around with our relationship. And it's always teh good side who wins.

Now regarding your situation, if your bf and his ex ended up well, I think they're just being friends. If they ended their relationship hanging, I think they're trying to patch up and maybe probably still in love.

If two lovers remain friends, they are either:
1. still in love with each other
2. never were in love with each other.

Think about it. You'll never know what they're up to. Too much trust can lead to extra plenty of tears...

XIII09 1 year 10 months ago wrote:

oh! forgot that one. thanks for pointing it out.

Calicien 1 year 10 months ago wrote:

Aww sureness.

anadorn 1 year 10 months ago wrote:

You no... with this topic I wanna qoute that line in my siggie, that's under construction...

"You may not trust the one you love, but you may love the one you trust"

read those lines and understand it...

YoYo 1 year 10 months ago wrote:

whf! what happen to siggie Ana?

Blahblahblah 1 year 10 months ago wrote:

ok i asked him the other day and he looked me strait in the eye and said "No. she's only my freind that's all"
he didn't blink or hesitate.
what do u guys think it means?
was he lying or telling the truth?

Dynewind 1 year 10 months ago wrote:

i think i read this somewhere.... correct me if i'm wrong...
if you look at his eye....
if he's looking to the right corner then he's lying.... i think it's like that or the opposite i cant remeber....

hehehe sorry..... i thought it was you

SinnerChrno 1 year 10 months ago wrote:

heh more relationship problems huh?This is so not my area of expertice but as a member of this community i feel it is my responsibility as well to offer some advice.Even if it isnt very helpful.

Erm well first of all i think you need to have a little more faith in your boyfriend.If you really care about him then atleast trust him when he says he just wants to be friends with her.

Like calicien said even if she has the intention of patching things up with her ex that does not mean that your boyfriend does as well.

Like i said before my advice is not the best when it comes to matters of the heart but i think that instead of drilling your boyfriend with questions.You need to go straight to the source of the problem.

Arrange a day to hang out with your boyfriends ex.Then casually talk about your boyfriend.Judging by how she answers.You can probably get the answer you were looking for, but if all else fails just ask her directly what her intentions are.

Also the best advice i can give you concerning this matter is.Have FAITH in your boyfriend.The more you question his intentions the great the risk you are putting your relationship in.

Well that is all i got to say.Hope this atleast helped some.

anadorn 1 year 10 months ago wrote:

I accidentaly deleted it from photobucket... I asked a friend of mine if he could make it(a better version) for me though...

YoYo 1 year 10 months ago wrote:

ooooooooooooooohhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh..........................

ya u broke up your reply bravo
no offense

XIII09 1 year 10 months ago wrote:

i once found a site about the top 10 lies of men and women, and one of the lies of men were, "she's just a friend". i don't know if it's true or not tho...oh, and as for the lies of women, all of it were like,"i believe you". lol.

if you want, you can spy on him and see what he's doing or read his cellphone messages and check if the girl's still flirting on him.

just don't tell him i said this to you ok? lol.

Calicien 1 year 10 months ago wrote:

Yih, I saw this one too, passed around as a text message. I think this is true.



OMG. As a lady, I think this part would be a little difficult. You can just ask your bf/gf's ex to go jogging, lunch, shopping and movies. It's just not that easy.

Still all depends tho, if maybe she's a good friend trying to steal a boyfriend or a classmate or a blockmate whatsoever.



Well, with this one, I don't know. I don't know your boyfriend, if he's a good liar or not. Only you can answer. Maybe we can give you choices, but it's always up to you. We hope teh options we all are giving you are quite helpful.

Try to tell him It feels awkward to know that you're going out with your ex. If he does something appealing to you, it means he doesn't really want to hurt you and that they're just friends. Well, if he didi't really do anything after your confession of awkwardness, I guess he's being a little too selfish.

You have to go on that problem together. Relationships are meant to be shared both ways.

YoYo 1 year 10 months ago wrote:

spyigisnt very nice mod

XIII09 1 year 10 months ago wrote:

yoyo: it's just an opinion. i'm not telling her to do it.

Dynewind 1 year 10 months ago wrote:

hahaha
BEWARE YOYO!!!!
MWAHAHAHA

SinnerChrno 1 year 10 months ago wrote:

Calicien i know that it is not easy to do but if you really want to know the truth. Then you have to atleast try.You can also make up an excuse such as my bf talks a lot about you and you sound like a great person.So if you wouldnt mind....Would you hang out with me sometime? You know something like that....

Hmm or she could try and go out with her boyfriend and invite her along.See who he pays more attention too and how they act around each other.Just do not make it obvious you are observing them.

Once again this is not my strong point so feel free to completely disregard my advice.

Calicien 1 year 10 months ago wrote:

SinnerChrno -- I don't dislike your advice. You do have a point. Probably, in my view, I just think it's too difficult. Well, unless someone with a super brave heart is willing to take risks.

YoYo 1 year 10 months ago wrote:

ok

of what?

ya it is diffucult and u would hve to have real guts

Calicien 1 year 10 months ago wrote:

Guts is something not everyone has got in their pockets.

SinnerChrno 1 year 10 months ago wrote:

Very true Calicien....BUT!!!Everyone is also capable of being couragous, or in other words everyone can be brave or have guts i should say. Especially when it counts.

If she truly is worried about his faithfulness or his Ex's intentions then now is as good a time as any to summon up all the guts and bravery and whatever she can muster, and do everything in her power to find out the truth.

Then again thats just what i would do and im diffrent from her.

Calicien 1 year 10 months ago wrote:

Hmm.. I wonder what blahblahblah did now