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Israel 1 year 9 months ago wrote:
I think this area her is so damn dry,

so i have a question,


Does absence and distance makes your heart go fonder or .....................wanderWhat?



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Runagi 1 year 9 months ago wrote:
This depends on the circumstances.

For instance, a woman is waiting at home for her husband to return from Iraq. She loves her husband fondly and counts everyday down until the day he returns to embrace her. However, while she is happy in her days, our young hero is over in Iraq blowing up people and what-not. His mind at night goes back to thinking of his wife at home. Through modern-day technology they are capable of contacting each other through internet/telephone.

What do you think? Their love is stronger than ever, not minding the distance.

On the other hand, however, back during the vietnam, these forms of techology weren't available. Men were taken as POWs, went MIA, and all that remains are letters to their family that never reached home. The wife at home worries about her husband but continues to care for the kids. One day he returns home a changed man. The war has scared him emotionally and the man is no longer the man she remembered him to be.

What do you think? Their love was weak, because of the time from each other and events that took place.

Both of these stories are actual stories that have occurred in my family. Divorce was imminant from the Vietnam veteran, but because of technology the Iraq veteran was able to communicate with his wife and have a piece of mind. Adaptation is one of the Humans keenest abilities, and depending on the circumstances, different results are obtained.

Another instance could be that a man is constantly finding himself home alone with his wife out of town on business meetings. If their communication is strong, their relationship is strong. If their communication is weak, their relationship is weak.

So all in all, your lesson from this should be one thing: Communication is the most important aspect of a relationship.
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Calicien 1 year 9 months ago wrote:
@ Rurie : Being a history major does affect your views. Hahaha!

@ Izzy

It's just similar as asking if long distance relationships work. And teh idea actually made me sigh. Come to think of it, in a few months, I'll be flying to America, taking exams and working there. I'll be leaving my boyfriend here. He said he's going to wait for me to come back (since he still needs to take up Law before he follows me).

But that's what he said. I cannot answer this one. It really depends. I'll cross teh bridge when I get there, that's what I always tell my bf.

Aw, this sucks. Unsure
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Kinju 1 year 9 months ago wrote:
I hear absence of a beloved from a single-minded individual makes him long for her~

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YoYo 1 year 9 months ago wrote:
well it depends on the kind of person u r. if u r a slutty pug (no offense to anyone who reads this) then i would say that u would wander, if u r just starting to see stuff in girls then i would also say that u would wander a bit.
if u have been dating a person for a real long time then u could still stare at the other sexes' parts that u find attractive(unless u r a slutty pig). but if u r the caring kind of person that isnt a slutty pig then u would become fonder or u would worry about what your partner is doing while they r away.
as i said before it all depends on what kind of person u r.
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Dynewind 1 year 9 months ago wrote:
umm........ i think if they contact each other often enough, they will miss each other....

well... i hope so..... coz my special friend is wayyyyyy away from me..... lol
Calicien 1 year 9 months ago wrote:
Quoted Text YoYo said:
well it depends on the kind of person u r. if u r a slutty pug (no offense to anyone who reads this) then i would say that u would wander, if u r just starting to see stuff in girls then i would also say that u would wander a bit. if u have been dating a person for a real long time then u could still stare at the other sexes' parts that u find attractive(unless u r a slutty pig). but if u r the caring kind of person that isnt a slutty pig then u would become fonder or u would worry about what your partner is doing while they r away. as i said before it all depends on what kind of person u r.


Wow yoyo, you're back!!!!!!!Laughing
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kalajel 1 year 9 months ago wrote:
Quoted Text Calicien said:
Quoted Text YoYo said:
well it depends on the kind of person u r. if u r a slutty pug (no offense to anyone who reads this) then i would say that u would wander, if u r just starting to see stuff in girls then i would also say that u would wander a bit. if u have been dating a person for a real long time then u could still stare at the other sexes' parts that u find attractive(unless u r a slutty pig). but if u r the caring kind of person that isnt a slutty pig then u would become fonder or u would worry about what your partner is doing while they r away. as i said before it all depends on what kind of person u r.


Wow yoyo, you're back!!!!!!!Laughing
With a vengence!
Quoted Text kalajel said:
Anyhow, I beleive that the real logical conclusion to all this is that I'm so darn cool, other people want to be me on other forums!Happy

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shakira 1 year 9 months ago wrote:
helloHappy
best people in the world are intresting
Dynewind 1 year 9 months ago wrote:
Quoted Text shakira said:
helloHappy


hello....
arent u supposed to make a thread in the green hornWhat?
to announce ur selfWhat?

well....

welcome to ROHQ, hope you stay with us



<can i stab him izzyWhat?? pleaseWhat?What??>
Calicien 1 year 9 months ago wrote:
Annoyed

Why stab?
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kalajel 1 year 9 months ago wrote:
Probably 'coz of the name; Shakira? (tell me, do your hips do lie?)Drooling
Quoted Text kalajel said:
Anyhow, I beleive that the real logical conclusion to all this is that I'm so darn cool, other people want to be me on other forums!Happy

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Calicien 1 year 9 months ago wrote:
What?
I don't get it...
Confuzzled
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kalajel 1 year 9 months ago wrote:
My hips don't lie, like in Shakira's song… unless she's unknown in the Phillipines…
Quoted Text kalajel said:
Anyhow, I beleive that the real logical conclusion to all this is that I'm so darn cool, other people want to be me on other forums!Happy

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Israel 1 year 9 months ago wrote:
dude here in our country..skahika's a rocker!!! hard rocker!!!!

wa did i just say skahika. hehe

btw i dont get it too, why hips dont lieWhat??
Normal is synonymous to boring

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IdyotAko 1 year 9 months ago wrote:
Lovely... Izzy posted the topic and Izzy is the one going away from the topic. Why am I not surprised... /gg

I can pretty much start a damn novel with my views on Love and stuff... but I don't have the time to type it all.

Maybe next time... hehehe...
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kalajel 1 year 9 months ago wrote:
Not Skahika, Shakira… I doubt weretalking about the same person here… but Idyot is right, we are disgressing… so I'll stop posting on this topic now, I'm hardly an authority on matters of the heart…Laughing
Quoted Text kalajel said:
Anyhow, I beleive that the real logical conclusion to all this is that I'm so darn cool, other people want to be me on other forums!Happy

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XIII09 1 year 9 months ago wrote:
whoa. you guys have off-topic issues. lol. and i hope that shakira does not give us the same problem that alecx gave us a long time ago.

anyway, yeah. i think absence makes the gheart grow fonder 'cuz in a long-distance relationship, you'd always have a reason to smile 'cuz you have a reason to. and that's looking forward to meeting that person again someday.
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kersheys 1 year 9 months ago wrote:
Oh Lord a 1 week resurrection by a mod.
Quoted Text Kinju said:
And K.H.A.W.D.? Meh! Hardly even a bother.
Runagi 1 year 9 months ago wrote:
Oh Lord a response by Ficucia! What comes next? The end of the world?
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kalajel 1 year 9 months ago wrote:
@Runagi: Yes, the End of the world has been coming for quite some time now, and I knew about it because I picked up on another sign: forum members constantly changing their avy…Drooling

I can't really answer that question because all my relationships never lasted long enough for me to face that particular problem. But if it can help, when I have my sights on someone, I can hardly think about anything else…
Quoted Text kalajel said:
Anyhow, I beleive that the real logical conclusion to all this is that I'm so darn cool, other people want to be me on other forums!Happy

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XIII09 1 year 8 months ago wrote:
Quoted Text Fiducia said:
Oh Lord a 1 week resurrection by a mod.


hey cut me some slack. i just wanna resurrect the old topics. is that so WRONGWhat? Crying
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Calicien 1 year 8 months ago wrote:
I think I'm gonna get my heart broken soon Crying
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Kinju 1 year 8 months ago wrote:
O? Doshite?

I still think love is overrated. Must be television drama series.
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YoYo 1 year 8 months ago wrote:
Quoted Text Calicien said:
Quoted Text YoYo said:
well it depends on the kind of person u r. if u r a slutty pug (no offense to anyone who reads this) then i would say that u would wander, if u r just starting to see stuff in girls then i would also say that u would wander a bit. if u have been dating a person for a real long time then u could still stare at the other sexes' parts that u find attractive(unless u r a slutty pig). but if u r the caring kind of person that isnt a slutty pig then u would become fonder or u would worry about what your partner is doing while they r away. as i said before it all depends on what kind of person u r.
Wow yoyo, you're back!!!!!!!Laughing

ty, someone finally noticed
Quoted Text Kinju said:
O? Doshite? I still think love is overrated. Must be television drama series.

at some times i can agree with u at others i can't, but all the time i will agree with about those drama series
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Dynewind 1 year 8 months ago wrote:
OK

guys.....
in the older generation of ROHQ.....

we STAB people okWhat??

and it's before my generation, so i dont know why.....

and suddenly iot stopped... lol
XIII09 1 year 8 months ago wrote:
Quoted Text Calicien said:
I think I'm gonna get my heart broken soon Crying

everyday, people get theire hearts broken and the good thing is, the experience makes them strong afterwards.
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IdyotAko 1 year 8 months ago wrote:
Which reminds me... wasn't there an old post about this before? Or was that someone asking advice on something. I can't remember... /hmm
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Dynewind 1 year 8 months ago wrote:
adviceWhat? is it MY threadWhat?
i'm not sure...
but i did use "ADVICE" as the title...
kalajel 1 year 8 months ago wrote:
Nah, I think it was YoYo who had GF problems…
Quoted Text kalajel said:
Anyhow, I beleive that the real logical conclusion to all this is that I'm so darn cool, other people want to be me on other forums!Happy

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Dynewind 1 year 8 months ago wrote:
oh!! yeah!! at the end yoyo's ex GF went back r8What?
and then wahtWhat? he choose which oneWhat? i forgot...
yoyo... i nkow u have been busy... come out now.. Laughing
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